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The Whakapapa of a Wound – Series Introduction – The Wound that Carries

The Whakapapa of a Wound – Series Introduction – The Wound that Carries

Humble Beginnings:

Matapihi Kirihou – The founding backstory of Te Poutama o te Ora

The plastic windows were never just plastic.

They covered what glass couldn’t be afforded. They let in light, but not clearly. And they were the beginning of a backstory that travels forward — into bodies, into relationships, into the homes our children grow up in, and sometimes into the arms of experiences, others and systems that step in when those homes become unsafe.

Why Am I Not With My Mum and Dad – The Question Children Carry What the Whakapapa passes on – the Children of the Wound

Why Am I Not With My Mum and Dad – The Question Children Carry What the Whakapapa passes on – the Children of the Wound

The continuing story of Mere

Children of the Wound

This is the fourth piece in The Whakapapa of a Wound. We have followed Mere from the washing basket, through the biology of her childhood, into the relationships that replicated what she first learned about love. Now we turn toward the children.

Toward the question that is the most tender of all: Why am I not with my Mum and Dad?